I think at 17, I know a few things here and there that some girls at my age still don’t know. Or even those older. Not that I’m saying just for the sake of saying but from observation. Talk is cheap but what people say is also a method to find out something isn’t it?

Some people won’t be able to understand why some people behave in a certain way, why they think in a certain way, feel, talk, judge and not forgetting how they react in a particular way.

It all boils down to what they’ve experienced, what they’re taught and the people around them.

My point is, people these days are really judgmental. To put it in a rude way, stereotypical.

People tend to not think of other possibilities for a certain outcome/situation.

I’m gonna give a vague and biased example. For example, if a man is very hot tempered, he is a bad person and people should stay away from him. True?

That is probably true, but what lies beyond, do we know? Who are to judge that? Have we enough evidences to prove that he really is a a bad person?

I don’t think so that the man who is hot tempered is a bad person. he may be hot tempered but who knows that he has problems for being that way. Perhaps he has the weight of the world on his shoulders which is causing him so much pressure that he turns out to be that way? We won’t know. He may be a hot tempered person but who knows he is prioritizes his elders or maybe he is a family man?

We won’t know right?

I came across a statement which affects me perhaps not directly but of course, I would feel slighted. I’ve got feelings. And in this situation, it was a mistake that I did. I’ve learned from it so that’s just it. I am human, I am full of flaws. But that doesn’t make me the same as the statement made by that certain someone.

There is a reason for everything that happens. For this, I know what’s the reason because that it was I who went through it.

Anyway, just wanted to say that most people are very judgmental and usually what is judged isn’t a fact. Just wished that people were more open-minded.